In fact, Kaysen wasn't thrilled with the bubble bath portion of his first year session at all. He didn't want to get in the tub, nor did he want to be wet. He much preferred to stay dry and play with the duckies in the water. 

Kaysen's first birthday session continued with a cake smash. Noni picked out this incredible green cake, which tied into the Wild Child shirt that Kaysen got for his birthday from me. When we first placed the cake in front of him, I'm convinced he thought we'd lost our marbles (not that its hard for us to do that). Soon, he started digging in and by the end he didn't want to let us take the cake away. 

But the best ones are those I'm blessed to photograph. He came into the studio for his first birthday and celebrated with a three part session: Portraits, Cake Smash and Bath time. The portrait session kept him busy, with balloons to play with, a crate to sit in, and plenty of play things so he wasn't creeped out by Auntie Markie's blue hair. 

Last week, I was doing the millennial parenting thing and tossed tablets at both of my kids while I finished up my weeks worth of work. When it was time to shut them off, I finally looked at what Mimi was watching... cooking videos on YouTube. YouTube isn't something I like the kids watching, but when she chooses cooking shows over those strange toy commercials (you know the ones, where kids watch someone else open a bunch of toys and play with them? They're weird but apparently popular.), I can't help but oblige her requests to learn to bake. Her current obsession is cupcakes. Elsa cupcakes, angry birds cupcakes, cupcakes with little bees on them... she wants to bake them all. So today, as promised, I told everyone I was booked up and went home to make cupcakes with my Mimi. 

Attempting to use more of what I already have, we scoured the cupboards for the necessary ingredients, and the internet for a recipe. I wasn't happy with any of the ones I found, so I pulled out a cookbook I was given for Christmas called Living Freely Gluten Free and we set to work. (For those who don't know, I've been Gluten Free/Dairy Free for over a year due to some health issues that removing these two items from my diet solved for me. This doesn't mean I never eat gluten or dairy... I do, but I know it will have consequences, LOL). I have to say though, these cupcakes were perfect when we were finished. Even Noni said she wouldn't have known they were GF/DF if she didn't know they came from my house. 

We made cupcakes. We made marshmallow fondant (surprisingly good shoulder workout). We made vegan buttercream frosting. We spent all afternoon baking, laughing and having a good time as a family (even though we sent Daddy & Gracie to the store to get dinner). Days like these, are the ones that refill my love for documentary photography. Even if I'm just taking pictures of half melted cupcakes. 

It's amazing where time goes when you're jet setting around the world. Mr Kaysen and his parents spent the first few months of this year outside of Tokyo Japan for daddy's job. The leaps and bounds Kaysen made while he was gone, from crawling to walking and eating solid foods, made the time seem like he'd been gone forever. 

I was lucky to be invited to photograph his Japan themed birthday party. From seaweed crackers to pot stickers, the food was incredible. This little man celebrated his birthday in style in his own little kimono outfit and dined on a delicious cake his mama made. 

But realistically, I'm more of the hot mess mom. It's a good thing if I put on pants in the morning, because working from home allows me to be lazy. ;) My mom on the other hand, she's got an artsy-craftsy side that I might be able to tune into if I wasn't so focused on other things. This year she found these dyed eggs using rice. It was supposed to be less messy, and since I have a bit of a hoarder complex when it comes to baking supplies, I had the necessary billions of food dye colors so we could get every possible color we needed. Seeing these projects come to life is always a fun experiment and the girls always have a good time doing crafts with Noni. One thing to note if you do this, the eggs that were soaked in vinegar took the color better... all the way through the eggs. (I'm hoping to try this next year with homemade food coloring!)

Honestly, this is probably the biggest contest I'll ever enter. One because I'm lazy and two because it's a wonderful whirlwind to spice up a rather mundane month in the photography world. Let's be realistic. February is cold, dreary and really doesn't give us much (unless we're talking booty then there's boudoir and baby booties galore up in here!). 

In 2017 I entered on a whim, not expecting to get anywhere with my images. There are literally thousands of AMAZING photographers out there who blow my work out of the water. But out of 50 images entered.... I had one in the top 20%, one in the top 30% and one image that made it to round 6 (out of 12). That's definitely not bad for a first year. These three were those winning images. 

The anxiety of waiting for results is almost enough to drive a photographer insane. I'm not even sure anymore how far my images made it and won't have that info until at least March 19th. Tiffany entered a couple of images for Wink Wedding Collective as well as a few of her own. Fingers crossed, one of our Wink images made it to round 12 (we think there is one, but we can't be sure until the results are in!). Below are a few of my favorites that I entered into the 2018 contest.  Tiny Hands Detail

The opening of Wink studio has been a huge opportunity for me to really grow and expand my availability to all of you lovely guys and gals. To celebrate, I've put together a Grand Opening Deal that won't be around for long! 

Session Fee

$299 $79 on Saturdays/Sundays, $199 $49 on Wednesdays/Fridays

Includes:
45 minute photography session
Unlimited outfit changes (within session time)
Two (2) 5x7 prints

Additional Prints & Products

It's not every day that you get to bring a celebrity into your studio, and lucky me, I have the ability to do it on the regular. Behold the amazing Carmie Cosplay as Ebony Jessica Rabbit. 

An avid Disney fan, I just adore anything and everything Disney themed. From weddings to newborns to boudoir shoots, I've enjoyed every Disney Theme there is. But this one was something else. Arriving straight from Toon Town USA, Ebony Jessica Rabbit is a bombshell to behold in everything.... and right down to her skivvies. Carmie really pulled this one off. Starting with the gorgeous purple gown, she put on a real show with her vocals. A woman of many talents, she can sing. 

When my Nana found out that I'd secured a studio in Tacoma, she asked to come model for me. While she may have very well been joking, I took her up on the chance to do what I'd so deeply regretted not asking to do before Papa died. I gave her a modern day portrait session. 

It got me thinking, why is it we don't take more photos of our grandparents? Do you have either a modern or classic portrait of your parents or grandparents? I have photos of birthdays, anniversaries, etc. and thankfully, my grandpa insisted on getting their photos done every anniversary. Just a 5 minute, simple portrait but those mean the world to me. 

We celebrate births with birth, fresh 48 and newborn photography. We celebrate first birthdays with cake smashes and portrait sessions. We celebrate kids growing up with school photos; graduation from high school with senior portraits; engagements, weddings, first anniversaries, women's empowerment. We celebrate all of these milestones over the course of our lives.... but when do we celebrate our seniors?

The truth is, we should celebrate them every single day. These are the men and women who raised us; who loved us at our worst and forgave our biggest mistakes. These are our parents and grandparents, the grandparents and great-grandparents of our children; the ones who gave us life, who picked us up when we fell down and sometimes the ones who laid there with us when we couldn't get back up. They deserve to be celebrated. 

Going forward, my goal is to photograph 2-3 seniors a month. If you know someone who would enjoy (or not) a short session to help with my personal project, please shoot a message to [email protected]

I'm so excited that we can do these cute little setups now! With Valentine's Day just around the corner, what a perfect gift for Mom, Dad, or the Grandparents! I don't know about yours, but my parents are always asking for new photos of the grand kids. So get them dressed up and head into Wink Studio for a cutesy Valentine's Day mini session to show them you DO listen to your parents. ;) 

Valentine's Day Minis - $60

Includes: 
20 minute photography session
Two (2) 5x7 prints

Need ideas on what to wear?

Kids: Grab some cute Valentine's themed outfits, or even an adorable pair of Valentine's PJs! It seems the little ones get all the good cute outfits, so this should be a breeze! (And the perfect excuse to buy some new pjs for Junior.) Another option is similar to my kids pink and black "church" dresses. A little fancier but still perfect for these pink and red themed minis. 

Pre-Teens & Teens: The best options here are the classic jeans and Valentines or white tee combo. Pair them with a jean jacket or cute vest for a classy, yet age appropriate look. 

Moms & Dads: These are the hard ones! With so many amazing outfits, it can be hard to narrow down a look. If you have kiddos in graphic tees or super cutesy outfits, stick with neutral colors to balance out the cute and classic. 

Fine Print

Clients will receive a watermarked online gallery for proofing and selecting their images for the included prints. Payment is due at the time of booking. Appointments can be made through the online booking calendar and will take place at Wink Studio in Tacoma. If you have any questions, please email [email protected] and your questions will be answered within 72 hours. 

I was semi-unwillingly nominated to become the "official" Team Photographer for a Pop Warner Football team outside of Pacifica, California. Never in a million years did I dare to imagine that moment would take me this far. To tell the truth, I didn't want to believe that I could do this. I kept telling myself I wasn't ready, I didn't have the client base, I couldn't make it work. Then I met Tiffany, and she proved to be the other half of my brain. The part that says "You can do this. You will do this. You are doing this." So we made that leap. 

And now, we have opened a gorgeous studio, located in the heart of downtown Tacoma's Theater District. We're steps from Dorkys, Matador and Firemen's park. I'm pretty sure there isn't anywhere better for us to be. Ironic, my mom used to work in one of these buildings, quite possibly the same one our studio is located in! I haven't taken enough photos of the studio setup, but without further ado..... here are the few I have! 

Of course I had to include Tiffany in there too. ;) Watch for the announcement for the studio grand opening sale! 

2017 was officially my craziest year yet. I would have to sit down and count how many different sessions I had, and that number is probably up over 100. Ain't nobody got time for that. But in the midst of all the crazy, I started to dream bigger. December rolled around, and the talk of securing an actual studio space quickly grew into a number one priority for Sashem Photography and I. But that's a post for another day. 

January

January was officially my slowest month. A few boudoir sessions, and an anniversary session pretty much summed up my entire month. A lot of dreaming was done during January, but not a whole lot of doing. This was also the month I met Tessa of The Chittle Homestead, and was honored to photograph her gorgeous DIY kitchen remodel for The Perpetual You. 

February

Another slow month, Tiffany and I tried to schedule a styled shoot that basically encompassed everything we loved. Weddings, Rock-n-Roll and Vintage thrift finds. Things fell apart at the last minute, but I was able to jump on the opportunity to join Lessie Blue Photography for an amazing wedding on the MV Skansonia. It was the start of a wonderful friendship and wedding season. 

March

Sashem Photography and I finally manage to get that styled shoot in, and it turns out marvelous! I'm incredibly stunned with how well our styles mesh and blend together, and we begin to dream of a wedding collective. 

April, May & June

Somewhere in here, wedding season starts. Things take off full speed ahead for my business and I'm busier than ever before. Almost every weekend I'm doing something either family related, or wedding related. 

July, August, & September

It doesn't stop. It doesn't slow down. It just keeps on trucking. By this point, Wink Wedding Collective has begun to take form and I'm scheduling winter mini sessions. We start looking a whole year out by this point and wonder how we're going to manage everything. Somewhere during this time, The Perpetual You launches it's print magazine, and I find myself falling in love with the whole collaboration, submitting photos to them left and right, and it brings me a new perspective on shooting for myself. 

The Rest of the Year

Things should have slowed down come October, but the truth is they didn't. Weddings continued right up until Christmas this year, concluding with the gorgeous Ben & Dagon at East King County Courthouse in Issaquah on December 22nd. Tiffany and I find a studio almost at the very last minute, and three years to the day I closed on my house, we got the call that we'd been approved to move into the studio. 

Somehow, we survived. And this year, while things are shifting for us, doors keep opening. Here's to 2018. 

Coming up with the words for this post is hard. I still struggle on a regular basis with loving myself and embracing my imperfections. If I tried, I could probably pick out half a dozen things in each of these photos that I dislike about them or myself. But I won't because that's not fair to the woman I am right now. 

A close friend said "I think we get so caught up in how we’d like to look that we forget to appreciate where we are right now. We can love our “now” even if we are working towards future goals. Also we are our own worst critics. Those who love us see our inner and outer beauty...it’s important to capture it....life is painfully short at times." It's an incredibly honest view on what happens when we step in front of the mirror.

But stepping in front of the camera is somehow freeing. It's an incredible gift to get to see how someone else views you, even for just a moment in time. It's a moment all to yourself, to embrace your beauty, confidence, sexuality. For a moment, you're not just a mother/wife/daughter. You're a siren, a bombshell, the most magnificent creature to grace the earth.

"Embrace the beautiful mess you are." - Elizabeth Gilbert 

After all. You were born to be real. 

Book your boudoir session today by visiting: Gimme A Wink Boudoir

It seems like there comes a time in every photographers "life" where they find they need a studio. This year, that time has come. Finding that perfectly beautiful white walled, well lit space is challenging. So Tiffany and I are hoping someone out there may be able to help. We've put together a short list of things we need our studio to have, and a longer list of things we'd love to have. 

Our Bare-Necessities:

• 300 square feet. 
• One large window
• White walls (or permission to paint the walls white)
• Utilities included
• Located between Puyallup and Auburn, including the surrounding areas

Our Dream Studio List:

• Walking distance to parks and urban backdrops
• Private bathroom/dressing room
• At least one naked brick wall
• Internet included
• Ability to mount backdrops to the wall
• Ample Free Parking
• Floor to ceiling windows
• Puyallup location 

Do you know of a space that might suit our needs? Email: [email protected] pretty please and let me know what you have! 

There is an entire generation of kids that were disappointed to learn of the world of Wizardry after their 11th birthday. I may have been one of them. (Ok. I probably was one of them). So when my girls and I were invited to our friends Harry Potter Party last October, I couldn't pass up the chance to go. 

Jayne put an amazing amount of thought into this party. From homemade butter beer to some pretty exquisite wands (I still have mine), there wasn't a detail overlooked. Invitations even hung above the chimney searching out the elusive Harry. I'm truly in love with the beautiful details she put into her decorations and food! 

The girls had a blast and still play with their (now broken and very Weasley-esque) wands. I really think that was the highlight of the night for those two. 

One day only this winter, Urban Mini Sessions! 

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Last year's "Anytime Mini Sessions" were such a hit that I'm bringing them back as Mid-Week Minis! I'm thrilled to offer two different looks for these sessions, urban and rural. Taking advantage of our amazing shops on Sumner's Main Street, we can stroll into Craft 19 and grab some coffee before window shopping on our way to Heritage Park. For a more rural setting, we'll meet up near Mama Stortinis (on the Puyallup side of East Main/Traffic Avenue) and take advantage of the beautiful River Walk. 

Mid-Week Mini Sessions are $150+tax and include a 30 minute session, 10 image online gallery with digital downloads and print release at one of the two locations listed above. Sessions are available on Wednesdays and Thursdays at 4:00 pm, 4:40 pm and 5:20 pm. To get started, fill out the form below and I'll get back to you asap!!! 

How many times do you come home at night and find your wife exhausted, hair in a messy bun, covered in child fluids and ready to completely collapse? But she's still cooking dinner, washing laundry, and cleaning up after the toddler for the 2183472343 time that day? It's a safe bet you still look at that woman and see the bombshell you married. I can promise you though, she probably doesn't feel like that same bombshell who wore those black stilettos, the mini skirt and that pretty lacy bra you love. 

Guys (and gals) it's time to pamper your wives. September 18th is Wife Appreciation Day and (even though you shouldn't need one) a perfect excuse to gift your wife an experience that will make her feel like she's 20 again. The Complete Boudoir Experience will leave her feeling sultry, sexy and empowered. She'll arrive about an hour before her session and receive a truly pampering experience that enhances her natural beauty, including hair and makeup services by my hand selected makeup artist. Once she's been fully pampered, she'll join me for a good hour choosing outfits that make her feel fabulous and having a good time. The end result will leave her feeling beautiful both inside and out. 

Purchase your wife a gift she'll thoroughly enjoy at https://squareup.com/store/llc_mj and let her know you appreciate her. Even if it's not Wife Appreciation Day. 

It's not every day that you're able to get married the same day as the solar eclipse, and it's said that the day of the eclipse is a great day to start new things. Ashley and Joey chose to do just that and August 21st, 2017 was the perfect day for their marriage to begin. Marrying at Tolmie State Park provided a wonderful array of backdrops. The amphitheater was quiet and serene as their ceremony began, and their officiant drew a circle around them symbolizing their circle together.  I loved getting to take part in their wedding, and truly hope they enjoy their reception back home in Minnesota! Congratulations you two!!

How many weddings have you attended where there is a dinosaur story nestled between "I do" and "You may kiss the bride"? My guess is, unless you were in attendance at Tarah and Bryan's wedding, probably zero. But that is exactly what happened during their ceremony. 

This wedding was incredibly sweet. Surrounded by their closest friends and family, Tarah and Bryan shared their vows at the cozy Orting Manor, under a beautiful white chandelier hung from the arbor. From Tarah's beautiful dress with a layer of dusty rose tulle, to their choice of Disney songs for their Mother/Son ("Winnie the Pooh") and Father/Daughter ("You'll be in my heart") dances, every piece came together in to create a very unique wedding that was all their own. They even chose to forgo a traditional wedding cake and instead chose a 3 tier rice crispy treat cake. I am honored to have been able to witness their vows and wish Tarah and Bryan the very best in their marriage. 

Jackie, my forever twinsie, has had life hand her lemons in the past, but on August 27th, 2016 she tossed those lemons back as she married the love of her life in a small backyard ceremony. Surrounded by their family and friends, they pledged their lives to each other. Scott has stepped up and proves to be amazing to both my twinsie and her two children. Of course, being that their first anniversary is soon, they needed anniversary photos to celebrate! We chose to include the kiddos and turned this sweet anniversary session into a fun and spontaneous family session. 

Believe me, I hear you! Budgeting for a wedding is even harder especially during times when you're trying to fulfill your frilly white dress dreams while still being an adult and paying your bills. Have no fear, there ARE ways you can save some moolah and still have your dream wedding. 

Schedule for the off season: 

October through April are typically "slow" months in the wedding industry and you can score some killer deals on your favorite vendors, attire and venues. For instance, if you're getting married between November 2017 and February 2018, you can rest assured your wedding photography is covered with my Winter Wedding Special. An awesome 6 hours of photography coverage gives you the biggest bang for your buck, with two photographers arriving right as your hair and makeup are finished (or meeting you at the venue) to capture those getting ready images and leaving after you've tossed that bouquet and begun to party hard. ;) You'll still get all the "busy season" goodies: A USB, Personal Print Rights, and approximately 1000 digital images to download and go to town with. Did I mention the killer discount? A $1500 package for $950! 

Other vendors, including the amazing Dawn Padgett of Seattle Bride Hair and Brittany Maxwell of Magical Moments by Maxwell, offer a discount on their services during the winter months. Seattle Bride Hair offers 15% off for wedding services during the winter months. Magical Moments by Maxwell offers a $200 discount on her day-of-coordination package. Many other vendors offer an amount or percentage off if you schedule during the off season. (You can contact either of them for exact details and to book!) 

A few other budgeting tips: 

• Give yourself plenty of planning time and spread out payments as much as possible. It's easier to make monthly payments of $100 than it is a lump sum of $2400, even if you have the money. (Watching it leave the bank is painful if you're anything like me). 
• Collaborate with other brides to reuse decor, flowers, etc. 
• Go "crazy" and get married somewhere spontaneous that you won't need a venue, just be sure to check for required permits. 

Watch for the launch of Wink Wedding Collective in January 2018 as Markie Jones Photography, LLC joins forces with Sashem Photography to bring you the funnest wedding photography team in Washington! 

Sometimes, in the middle of every day life, we run into one of "those" clients. The types who steal our hearts and instantly become one of our best friends. Craig and Amy are like that. I met Craig through a friend, and over the past year we've become good friends. When I asked them to join me in January at sunrise, it was not surprising at all that they got up at the butt-crack of dawn and drove all the way to Rattlesnake Lake just to appease my random crazy ideas. When they arrived, sweet Amy mentioned being tired, but they were going out for their anniversary. Shortly after, I found out why.... Amy was pregnant! 

Of course, they asked if we could do their maternity session at Point Defiance Zoo and Aquarium, after seeing the awesome wedding photos from there earlier this summer. So a morning of chit chat, wandering the zoo and attracting attention as they danced in front of a large fish sculpture, made for some pretty unique and memorable moments. Soon we will be welcoming their baby girl, and wouldn't you believe.... they aren't the only ones counting down the days to baby snuggles. ;) This photographer is too. 

When I was called for Mari and Beau's July 30th wedding, there were only two weeks left to go. I didn't get the chance to get to know them like I usually do with my couples. But I knew these two were going to be wonderful when I arrived to find Beau looking handsome in a white and turquoise tux, all the tables adorned with beautiful bouquets, and her family members who welcomed me immediately. When Mari arrived, I headed in for getting ready photos. This was the first time I'd shot the bride getting ready in an RV, but it was incredible. Her dress was something straight out of my dreams. Three pieces (top, bottom and detachable train), each featured incredibly detailed rose appliques in several colors. The top alone was adorned with beautiful lace, white ribbon and the roses in purple, turquoise, blue, yellow and orange. Completing the look was her train, which stretched out 8-10 feet and also featured the gorgeous florals. 

The excitement of the day mounted the closer the ceremony got. Seeing Beau's face as his beautiful bride walked down the aisle was amazing. And these two are such fun. They were game for anything Lessie and I asked of them, including a piggyback ride and dancing alone in the middle of the field. I'm looking forward to seeing these two grow together and hope they will visit Brookstom Creek and myself in the future. 

Lessie of Lessie Blue Photography was an amazing teammate on Sunday and I look forward to many more wedding adventures with her in the future! 

Walking into Angie and Jeremy's wedding felt like walking into a Hollywood movie set. From the handmade details to the vintage platters that adorned their two long rows of tables for guests, there was no feature that hadn’t been given the attention every Gatsby party deserved. The only thing missing was Gatsby himself, but he would have been proud of this party for sure. 

A gorgeous follow up to Angie and Jeremy’s engagement session, their wedding was the stuff of dreams. Lights had been strung around the tops of the tables, and tealight lanterns hung from the trees. Angie herself could have walked straight out of Leonardo DiCaprio’s movie scene, with a vintage styled gown from David’s bridal and intricate hairpiece. Even the table décor had been hand-picked by Angie during various trips to visit friends. She stopped at vintage shops during her travels and found each unique item including some vintage crystal pieces.

Their entire ceremony was beautiful and they chose to water a tree that would be planted as their unity ceremony. It was a beautiful and wonderful event that their family and friends are sure to remember.  Tiffany of Sashem Photography and I were truly honored to be a part of their special day. 

I met Belinda with Happy Camper Cocktail Company through The Rising Tide Society, when I reached out for vendors to feature on the blog. She filled out my form and then asked if I'd be willing to collaborate on a few shoots for her drink features in The Perpetual You online magazine (see more on our Published & Profiled page!). It gave me the opportunity to meet her in person and learn more about this amazing personality. 

Happy Camper Cocktail Company is like nothing else. They mix and serve "farm to bar" or "garden to glass" cocktails made with Washington state sourced ingredients that wow in appearance and taste, straight from their one of a kind vintage camper bar. That's right, their bar is mobile, a 1966 Aladdin travel trailer turned bar. Painted all white, she always makes an impression while blending in seamlessly with any style decor. Many of their farm to bar ingredients are sourced at Simple Goodness Farm in Buckley, owned by Belinda's sister, making this a business a family affair. 

The passion behind Happy Camper Cocktail Company runs deep into their housemade mixers, which are inspired by the seasons and full bounty Washington state has to offer agriculturally. Belinda takes pride in serving these garden to glass drinks and is endlessly inspired by creating menus to match each event. From PNW specific flavors like Marionberry and Huckleberry syrups, to classic cocktail mixers made the old way, the right way, like Grenadine from pomegranate juice, Belinda makes sure their bar mixers have thought, passion and flavor to spare. 

Happy Camper Cocktail Company offers a variety of packages to fit every budget. The Marilyn package is the perfect bar package for a wedding, featuring three signature cocktails (including a welcome cocktail or special cocktail hour drink), beer on tap, poured wine, non-alcoholic beverages and of course, a champagne toast. All featured drinks are of your choosing, but Belinda will help you craft the menu to reflect your event's style and your tastes as a couple. 

Belinda's Advice for Brides: 

"Pick moments of your day that are important to you and your guests and make these things the highlights of your day, then let the rest go a little. Not every detail needs to be a painstakingly ornate production, but the things that will shine most for your guests and yourself on your big day are the meaningful and fun details that reflect you as a couple. For our service, we love to work with foodies, agriculture enthusiasts, crafters and makers, vintage lovers, wanderers & adventurers. They and their guests enjoy our services so much more because to them it isn't just a prop with a cocktail, it's a full circle experience and our little bar becomes the centerpiece of their evening."

You can find Belinda and Happy Camper Cocktail Company on Facebook, Instagram & their website. 

Last week, we packed up for an extended trip to Newport Oregon. I hadn’t stayed at this particular campground and it had been almost 6 years since mom, Emi & I had driven through on our girls road trip back to California where Emi & I lived at the time. Doing a bit of research before we left, I learned we were only minutes away from the Oregon Coast Aquarium; one that we’d stopped at on that road trip in July 2011. Knowing how close we were, mom made sure we planned to go visit. So we packed everyone up on Friday morning and headed out for lunch, then the aquarium.

Money can’t buy happiness but it sure can pay your way into an aquarium, which is kinda the same thing. The girls had a blast looking at all the fish, and touching the animals in the touch tank. Gracie tried to convince Opi that the anemone bit her, but really the spiky little guy just wanted to give her a “hug”. Some of the animals seemed very in tune to the people there, and one seal even tried to eat a gal’s purse through the glass. I’m excited to add some of these photos to our gallery wall at home and had a blast getting to watch the girls take it all in.

July 4^th of every year has been a bit emotional for me. Being a co-parent, holidays are shared and sometimes I wouldn’t have either of my kids. But July 4^th has been “my” holiday every year for the past 7 years, and I’m forever grateful that I’ve been able to share this with both of my children. This year has made some major changes in the lives of my children, and each one, though rough at the turning point, has been for the betterment of their lives.

Tuesday, we set out in the morning for breakfast with Grammy April, then made our way to Les Grove Park in Auburn for their annual 4^th of July festival. There were bounce houses galore, tons of food (it’s crazy how many events revolve around food), and vendors to suit every obsession. Of course, the girls wanted matching face paint, pony rides and super hero capes which have to be one of the coolest things I found there and totally worth the price tag to see my kids’ faces when I said they could each pick one out.

The day ended pretty much how our 4^th of July always ends. BBQ brats and fireworks bought at the Bonney Lake High School stand. I love the simplicity and slowing down to enjoy my little family.

Every single person on the planet has probably heard that saying, and there are many couples who've modeled it in the past. This weekend, I was given the pleasure of photographing one of those couples who's connection truly shines through their friendship and love. My team and I discussed it later, realizing we'd never laughed that often or that hard at a wedding. These two were so much fun to photograph, between Steve's antics and Amy's stunning smile, we couldn't have asked for a better couple last weekend.

Amy and Steve had been together for 13 years before tying the knot. Surrounded by their friends and family, they proclaimed their love in a short and sweet ceremony at Hunter Family Farms in Olympia. Their rustic wedding was incredible and even after the morning overcast skies had me concerned, Mount Rainier stood proud in the background of their ceremony. 

Amy & Steve together helped to make their wedding day eco-friendly as well. Floral centerpieces served as wedding favors, ready to be taken home and planted in guest's gardens. Amy's bouquet, along with the boutonnieres worn by Steve and Mike (the officient), were wooden flowers from Eco Flower and they smelled delightful. The majority of their decor was rented from Rustic Receptions, ensuring the reuse of the items. Steve even came up with a wonderfully eco-friendly guest book: Every guest had their photo taken in front of a homemade pallet backdrop and images will be placed into a digital frame where they can be viewed every single day. 

Amy & Steve's day was chock full of wonderful memories and moments, one that Tiffany, Alaina and I will for sure remember for years to come. Amy & Steve, thank you for having us. We wish you the best in your next adventures. 

We all need a little edgy rock in our lives. For Tiffany of Sashem Photography, it comes in the form of her 4 year old singing Death-Metal Lullabys. For Me, it's more of a dull roar in the background that binds my personality together. Between the two of us, we knew we needed a little more rock in our lives and Tiffany birthed the idea of this elopement. 

It started by looking for something more edgy than many of the styled shoots we'd seen recently. We both love a good styled shoot to fill in the blank spaces of the winter months, but each one we came across held a hefty price tag and the restrictions on them didn't sit well with either of us. We started with the dress, one Tiffany had her eye on for a while and I happened to have purchased last summer for another shoot and ended up not using it. The shoes came from my closet and the couple were introduced to us through a mutual vendor-friend I had met the previous year through The Rising Tide Society and The Perpetual You. 

Alisha & Josh were perfection. He had the hipster-spunk we were looking for, and she resembles a gorgeous tattooed mermaid. Together they completed our vision for this session and brought it to life with a love that runs incredibly deep. The time we spent with them was full of laughter, smiles and excitement. You'd never know the entire thing had been staged. 

From the detail shots we took in the old Graffiti Garage, to the dancing in the courtyard and followed up with a visit to Firemen's Park in Tacoma, this styled shoot really allowed Tiffany and I to connect through our photography, both as individuals and as a team. I look forward to many more real weddings and styled shoots with this brilliant woman! 

Chances are, you've spent a good chunk of your wedding budget on your photographer and you want to make the most of your photography. These memories aren't going to make themselves, and while the majority of professional photographers are awesome at rolling with the punches, this handy list of questions to ask yourself or your coordinator during your final venue walk-through will help set your photography team off on the right foot (pun totes intended). 

1) Will you be getting ready at the venue? Where?

If you've chosen to get ready at your wedding venue, that's great! It cuts down on travel time and allows you to gain those extra 10/15/25 minutes of photography to capture every little detail. 

2) Is there a window or plenty of lighting in your preparation area?

Lighting is key and we love window light around here. If there's a window with sheer curtains in your prep area, be sure to make yourself a note to keep it clear. If you can't, or the venue has a table/furniture in front of it, find out if we'll be able to move that piece the day of. We promise to put it back! ;) 

Engagement Ring | Seattle Wedding Photographer | EngagedThe Roosevelt Hotel Seattle | Shot for Lessie Blue Photography | Markielynne.com 3) Will you be able to enter & exit the preparation area without your guests seeing you?

Many brides do not wish for their guests to see them before their ceremony. Plus, if you can enter and exit your prep area or bridal suite at the venue without being seen, it helps avoid the guests who are dying to wish you well with long conversations when you really just want to go pee before your walk down the aisle. 

4) Where will your attendants be getting ready?

If you're wanting photos of your attendants or groom getting ready, it's essential that we know where this is happening. I almost always shoot with a second photographer, which makes it easy to split up if your groom is getting ready elsewhere. 

5) Is there a backup area designated for weather?

Let's face it. This is Washington. It rains in the middle of Summer and snows in June sometimes (ok. Maybe once, like 20 years ago but still). You'll want to be sure and have a designated backup plan, even if there's a 110% chance of sunshine on your wedding day. Canopies, Indoor Ceremony, something to fall back on if needed. The piece of mind is worth the extra 5-10 minutes of planning. 

6) When & How will your guests arrive?

In order to get those beautiful shots of your ceremony space before your guests arrive, you'll want to give us a general idea of when and how they'll show up. If they're coming into a designated space, that lets us know we can wait a bit longer to head out to the ceremony spot and take those photos. If your guests will file directly into the ceremony space, we'll want to get those images early as possible. 

7) If necessary, how will paths and outdoor areas be lighted?

While most Summer ceremonies will take place well before sunset (hello 9:00 pm sunsets!), if you're scheduled for a late fall/winter/early spring wedding, you may want to light the paths/aisle or outdoor reception area with string lights, lanterns or other lighting. 

8) Will the photographer need to be seated during your ceremony? If so, where will they be seated? 

While I've never personally run into this, I've heard stories from other photographers who've been restricted to one spot during ceremonies. If your venue requires that your photographer and everyone stay seated, consider positioning one photographer on each side with a reserved front row seat. This will give them the best view of your ceremony for those moments. You may also consider asking about a third photographer just for your ceremony to place at the back of the space. 

9) Where will your guests go after the ceremony? Will you need to leave the venue for couples and formal portraits?

Your couples and formal portraits are usually the most requested photos from the day, and the ones that take up the most time. Having a designated area (whether its the reception space or another spot for cocktail hour) for your guests to go will help to keep them corralled and move your formal portraits along. If you'll need to leave the venue for couples and formal portraits, be sure to consider where you'll want to get these shots done. 

10) How long and where will your cocktail hour be?

If you're having a cocktail hour, be sure to note where this will take place and if there is any exclusive decor that won't be present in the reception space. 

11) Where will your photographers be seated for dinner? 

I highly suggest placing your photographers and vendors at a table near you & your new husband/wife. This allows you to be able to quickly grab them when Great Aunt Sue comes over for a photo in the middle of dinner. 

12) If you are feeding your photographers, when will your photographers be fed?

If you're feeding your vendors, consider having them jump in line right behind you. Or if serving a plated meal, remind your catering staff to serve them immediately after you. This will help to keep your wedding photography timeline on schedule without having to deal with cranky hangery photographers. ;) 

13) Where will the DJ/Band be setup & what lighting will they have?

It's always good for us to know where the DJ/Band is setup and what lighting they bring. DJ lights can be a ton of fun during receptions and we always like to know if there is any uplighting or if we'll need to set up our additional lighting equipment. 

14) If you're having a photo booth, where will that be setup?

Photo booths are huge successes! We simply need to know where to set it up so your guests can see it but don't trip over anything. 

Final Tip: Take photos on your phone of places you might want your formal portraits and Bride+Groom portraits taken. Text or email them to your photographer so they have them on hand. ;) 

When Alisha mentioned wanting to have her maternity photos done at Simple Goodness Farm in Buckley, my heart literally leapt at the thought. I'd had my eye on Simple Goodness Farm for several months and it had been years since my last visit for their annual Garlic & Goats festival. Alisha's session would be the prime opportunity and excuse to visit this working Farm in Buckley.

I arrived at Simple Goodness Farm a bit early, and met up one of the wonderful Simple Goodness Sisters, Venise. I've worked with Belinda, the owner of Happy Camper Cocktails and other Simple Goodness Sister, in the past, so of course I was delighted to finally meet the other half of this incredible duo. 

Alisha & Josh arrived right on time and we made the trek out through the cow pasture to the far end of the field. The sunlight was gorgeous and Alisha was simply radiant. Josh looked mighty handsome and you could tell he is super in love with Alisha. Kinsley wasn't having it though, so we made quick work of their session, to keep Kinsley happy, and with the help of a few photobombing cows (including the over-pregnant Mama) and a few bubbles helped tide her over a little bit. She would have much rather played with Mama cow though. 

Alisha & Josh may look familiar as they modeled for the collaborative styled shoot with Sashem Photography back in March. These two seriously radiate love and their bond grows every day. Welcoming their second baby is going to be a complete joy for anyone who witnesses it. Watching these two lovebirds and getting to celebrate their little one with them is always enjoyable and I look forward to seeing their family in years to come.

I love getting to learn from other photographers and being able to photograph them. It's quite rare to be in front of the camera versus behind it, and many photographers don't get in front of it often enough. It's been a goal of mine to photograph as many photographers as possible, so when Sarah stepped up and offered Kenny and herself as models for a class assignment, I was thrilled to have them join me. 

Sarah runs her own photography business while raising their little one and tending the farm they own. Her husband Kenny, is pretty much head over heels for his woman, and these two were quite fun to photograph. Sarah told me about her wedding and how she did her own wedding photos, while Kenny just smiled and nodded. 

The assignment for their session was part of a Moment Design training I was taking with Jesh De Rox. Using these prompts and watching the connection between the two of them was an extraordinary experience. I'd also never shot a couple in studio before, so this was a whole new ballgame. The simplicity of their session really helped bring out the connection and love between the two of them. 

I first met Lessie at last April's Windmill Garden Styled Shoot hosted by Rebecca Anne Photography and Holcomb Weddings & Events. Lessie was bubbly and energetic; which of course automatically drew me to her. She thinks outside the box and comes up with creative angles and ideas. Almost a full year later, I was able to join her for a wedding, and it reinforced how wonderful this lady is. I truly enjoyed spending time with her and am thankful to be able to call her a friend. 

On to the wedding.....

Our day started with the trek to Seattle. Lessie and I met up in our hometown of Sumner, and thankfully, the drive north wasn't super packed. We left incredibly early and were able to grab some coffee and chat... two of my favorite things to do. From there, we headed over to Seattle's Roosevelt Hotel. This place was extraordinary. The reception area was alike a quaint speakeasy with a modern twist. Leather chairs, a velvet couch and dozens of mirrors really gave the place a unique vibe. And the rooms were simply stunning. The light was absolutely gorgeous inside and made for wonderful detail shots. 

Stephanie and Mike were simply adorable together. Joined by their one groomsman (Stephanie's son), Mike and I walked down to Westlake Center where we waited (not so) patiently for their first look. I positioned Mike towards me before Stephanie and Lessie rounded the corner, and was elated to see how thrilled Stephanie looked when she first saw Mike. These two had such wonderful chemistry and completely trusted Lessie's vision. Once we were finished, we headed out to Gasworks Park for family and couples portraits. The rain decided to make an entrance as soon as we arrived, so hauling gear and umbrellas we took cover in one of the large buildings. Finding fun areas to shoot through was an interesting challenge. But Stephanie and Mike just rolled with it, and their portraits turned out wonderful. 

The MV Skansonia was only a few blocks away, and arriving on board, I was stunned at how gorgeous the interior was. Pictures simply don't do this venue justice. The MV Skansonia is a retired ferry permanently docked on North Lake Union. The vintage nautical decor gives the venue a very classic vibe and was an amazing accent to Stephanie and Mike's vision. From the playing card favors to the beautifully adorned cake, everything felt like walking into an old Hollywood movie. 

Their ceremony vision was one I'd never heard before. Instead of the traditional ceremony style, where the alter is in front of all the guests, Stephanie and Mike invited all of their guests to gather around. They stood in the center while their most important friends and family circled around them, and the love that flowed was palpable. They read vows they'd written each other, exchanged rings and shared their first kiss. Between the ceremony and reception, we managed to sneak them away to the upper deck with gorgeous views of the Seattle Skyline. A few quiet moments and then it was time to party. 

Their reception began with their introduction, then dinner and toasts. The Mother of the Groom sang, while another guest played the guitar. This group was a fun bunch to watch, as they held their battery operated candles in the air, rock concert style. This was a perfect start to my 2017 wedding season. A huge thank you to Lessie of Lessie Blue Photography for allowing me to join her. 

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I've always found it to be an honor when I'm asked to photograph a friends wedding. I'm definitely not the type that would rather attend a wedding than photograph it, and you can be certain it's very likely I will have my camera on me at my own wedding (should that ever happen) no matter what other people think. It's simply who I am. 

This particular wedding, I'd waited a long time for. I met Summer when I did girl scouts with her sister, Tiffany. When she was graduating from Bonney Lake High School, her dad asked me to photograph her senior photos. I'd barely started my business and she was the first senior I ever photographed, but they insisted on paying me with a Red Robin Gift Card. It was the best dinner I'd ever earned. After that, Summer and I really became friends, and over the past 8 years she's introduced me to several wonderful people and I've watched her grow into an extraordinary young woman. So of course, when she asked me to be her wedding photographer, I was ecstatic and had to try really hard not to cry. (Because we all know I look like a Bad-@$$ but I'm really really soft in the middle. :P ) 

Summer introduced me to Michael around 2012/2013. I'd heard plenty of stories about him before that, but wasn't prepared for the super quiet, seemingly shy young man she brought to their session. He barely talked to me, maybe cracked one joke the whole time, and was incredibly low-key. I just couldn't get much out of him, though they were both thrilled with those photos. Now, I honestly can't get him to stop talking. The banter starts the moment I walk up and their wedding day was nothing like that very first session. What really stood out to me on Sunday was the way he supported Summer. Anytime a hitch or hiccup would start to worry her, Michael was right there offering comfort, support and loving words. To him, it didn't matter how the day went. I'm sure they could have gotten married in street clothes on the corner somewhere and he would have been content. His love for Summer really shined through and it was difficult for me to keep my emotions in check around these two. They are so in love and so very perfect for each other. 

Their wedding day really encompassed everything these two stood for. From the music they chose (Somewhere over the Rainbow) to the delicious bacon wrapped dates, the thought that was put into each and every detail was exquisite. Summer's dress made her look like a Disney Princess, but her light blue converse gave her that rock-n-roll edge she's always had. Their North Pacific Aquarium Ceremony was simple and sweet, even the shark teeth were dressed to the nines with rose and greenery garlands. But what is a Point Defiance Zoo wedding without animal encounters? Siesta the Sloth and an adorable little hedgehog made appearances during the reception for a truly unique experience. Their entire day was truly amazing and I am forever thankful I was able to be a part of it. 

As always, it's a pleasure working with my team: Tiffany and Alaina of Sashem Photography are two of the best women I could have asked to photograph this wedding with me. You two rock. Thank you for being simply amazing. <3  

Our family has had a tradition since I was a kid. Disneyland vacations. We started going when the Magic Kingdom had one single hotel, one park and the fantastical light parade. Buzz Lightyear hadn't had his debut, It's a Small World wasn't the most annoying song on the planet, and Moana probably wasn't even a spark in her creators brain yet. My very first Disney trip was around 1988, I was about 18 months old. Since then, our family has visited the home of Mickey Mouse almost yearly, only skipping years a few times here and there. I even requested my exhusband and I honeymoon there when we got married; I love the place so much. (In case you're wondering, we totally did). 

Thankfully, this tradition has continued over to my tiny family. Even after my divorce, I made taking Emi to Disneyland a huge priority. With the addition of Gracie, the cost has risen, but so has my drive to continue taking them every year. It's our special time every year, where I completely leave the office (and sometimes the cameras) behind to solely concentrate on my daughters and their childhood joy. It's probably also the only time during the year where I'm not watching every episode of Mickey Mouse Clubhouse or listening to Frozen half dozen times a week. ;) 

When we visited the Mouse's house last December, I decided to try something new. With a bag full of old 35mm film, my old Pentax K1000 and a 50mm lens, I decided to photograph a Disneyland Day entirely on film. This was an incredibly unique experience for me, as it's been years since I really worked with my pentax for more than a few frames at a time. I was grateful that I had my gear though, as we got to do things no one had done before this year. With the train down for construction, the park had opened up the New Orleans Station and kids were allowed to go back behind the train, play inside it and even pull the horn. 

The downside to film is I can put the exposed rolls away and forget about them. So as it stands, I didn't get my photos back until about a month ago. On the other hand, it was a joy to get to relive those memories months after they'd happened. I guess you could say film photography is a win-win. 

For the Bride
Prepare your wedding day attire the night before, and set it next to your front door. A quick list of items to prep:

• Jewelry: If you don't have a jewelry roll or pouch, place necklaces & rings in plastic baggies with the necklace clasp hanging out and grab a small piece of cardboard to stick your earrings through. Put them all together in your makeup bag or a pocket in your day bag.
• Shoes: place these in a pillow case, and wrap them with their tops together to take up the least amount of space while keeping them clean from any makeup spills.
• Undergarments: Self explanatory.
• Extra clothes: If you're having professional makeup and/or hair done, be sure to bring or wear a bra with a clasp so you won't need to pull it over your head. A button down shirt is a great choice too.
• Grooming Extras: Tweezers, razors, etc. Just in case of a random hairy situation.
• Makeup bag: Even if you're having professional makeup done, be sure to bring your own lipstick so you can refresh it throughout the day. If you're doing your own makeup, be sure to bring setting spray, waterproof mascara, lipstick, blush, foundation, eye shadow and all of your brushes you'll need.
• Hair piece & Styling accessories: If you're doing your own hair, be sure to pack your styling accessories, such as curling iron, flat iron or wand, and hair spray/pomade. Don't forget any clips you'll need for styling and your hair piece or veil!
• Snacks: The wedding day will fly by, so be prepared to forget to eat. Toss your favorite power snacks in your bag so you always have something to munch on. My favorite Power Ball Energy Bites are from Bless This Mess. I practically lived on these last summer during busy season.
• Your Dress: This is likely the most important piece of your attire, as not many brides want to walk down the aisle in their skivvies. Hang that dress on a heavy duty hanger, in it's bag and place it where you can easily see it on your way out the door.

For the Groom
It's likely you're a bit more low maintenance, but here are the things you'll want to have set aside:

• Shoes: It's possible you'll still have these in the box, so keep them there but toss in a cleaning cloth with them to wipe off any scuffs.
• "Jewelry": Place your watch, cuff links, rings, and any other items into a plastic bag, and tuck these into your shoes so they don't get lost.
• Socks: Tuck your socks inside the other shoe to keep them in one place.
• Undergarments: Self explanatory. These can be tucked in with your shoes as well.
• Grooming kit: Bring tweezers, razors, a brush, lint roller and anything else you might need to complete your grooming for the day.
• Tux/Suit: Don't forget your tux or suit! Hang it by the door where you can grab it on your way out.

Other items
These are sometimes overlooked items that should definitely be taken care of the day before:

• Fill the car(s) with gas. No one wants to be stranded and waiting on AAA when trying to get to their wedding venue.
• Double check with your vendors for arrival times, or check in with your wedding coordinator if you have one.
• EAT, DRINK, SLEEP! Remember to take care of yourself and don't get too carried away making last minute plans.
• Finally, relax. Tomorrow is your big day and you're going to shine!

Once upon a time, a young woman went to a bar on post, because it was the only bar she could get into at 20 years old. While there, she met a young man, stationed far away from home. Before she left, she gave him her phone number on the back of her boss's bank deposit slip. 7 months later, those two were married. And 37 years later, they're still married.

Why is this my favorite love story? Because that young woman is my mom, and the young man is my dad. She grew up in the same area we all live now, while he had been stationed at Fort Lewis (currently known as JBLM) when they met. 37 years, two kids, and (now!) three grandkids later, they're still in love.

Almost a year ago, my grandpa lost his battle with pneumonia. He'd fought hard for a good 6 months but it had been a rough battle and he was tired. The day our family said our final "see you later" to him, I commented to my mom through tears: "You watch. Every time someone dies in the family, someone ends up pregnant." While she laughed through her own tears, I'm not sure she actually believed me.

Three months later, my brother and sister-in-law announced her pregnancy. And 25 days before the 1 year anniversary of Papa's death, little Mr. Kaysen arrived on the scene. He's completely stolen the heart of every woman in our family and I cannot begin to describe the joy and love this little guy has brought everyone.

A tiny little thing, at just over 7 lbs, he's simply adorable. I was allowed the honor of being both his Auntie and the photographer for his Fresh 48 and newborn sessions. I can't wait to see what an amazing human being this little guy turns out to be. But for now, I'm content with getting in all those baby snuggles.

Matt & Miranda joined the church I attend shortly before being married there. Their eldest, Caden, wasn't quite a year old when Miranda learned that Carson would soon be joining them. I've been blessed to photograph their family on more than one occasion, not including church functions. Caden is an expressive little man, and such an adorable big brother; even he was more interested in playing with his Star Wars Hot Wheels, he helped me "fluff" the baby poser and arrange the cute little outfit his mama bought his baby brother.

Carson was just over two weeks old and wide awake during his session. Sometimes babies don't want to follow our instructions and that's ok! It was wonderful seeing all his little expressions, including his mad gangsta face. This adorable little guy was patient as I wrapped, unwrapped and changed his outfit. Seeing him with mama was wonderful. She is so full of love for her littlest man. And dad was pretty proud too.  

Dawn Padgett is one amazing woman. She's a hair & makeup artist in Tacoma, owner of Seattle Bride Hair and it just so happens, she's been put in charge of my own hair this year. Several weeks ago she asked me to photograph a styled shoot with her, using the same dress designer that had designed her own wedding dress. When finding the perfect model proved to be a bit difficult, the designer at Wai-Ching Studio stepped up and offered to model her own designs. 

Talk about pressure. Just kidding! 

Chrissy arrived at the salon and Dawn explained her vision. It was total rock-n-roll and stole my heart immediately. Dawn faux-hawked Chrissy's gorgeous long locks, and created the perfect look for the shoot. Of course, when Chrissy presented the dress she'd chosen as the main feature, I fell in love all over again. Needless to say, I need to grow my hair out and have a party just so I can rock this look and dress too. 

I'll be honest, this is only the second fresh 48 I've ever photographed, but both of them stole special spots in my heart. Yesterday, at 2:14 am, Baby Kaysen joined his mama and daddy in this world. I was the lucky auntie to get the text message shortly after in the wee hours of the morning. 

The trip into St. Joseph Hospital seemed to take forever, even though the hospital is only a 40 minute drive from my home office. But 40 minutes and a 12 floor elevator ride later, I was finally able to meet the little guy. 10 fingers, 10 toes and a perfect little nose. I fell in love immediately. 

Mimi was thrilled when I picked her up after school to take her to meet Kaysen. She was able to sit and hold him, with Uncle Michael's help. The family is ecstatic about little Kaysen's arrival. Congratulations to Michael & Macauley. 

When Tiffany, of Sashem Photography, told me about this wedding... I may or may not have legit squealed. (Ok. I admit it, I totally did). Let's be serious, I'm a complete sucker for a good offbeat wedding, and this spooktacular spectacle delivered more than I could have dreamed of. 

Arriving at Lake Lawrence Lodge, I had no idea what I was in for. The quaint little lodge sits back where most people wouldn't venture. Surrounded by homes, it appears to be a members only community center, but they rent out for weddings and events. Inside I found the place decorated in pumpkins, masquerade masks, spiders and even a skeleton bride and groom complete with caskets. From I do to death beds all in one night huh? 

Taking it all in was a feat in itself. There was something new in every nook and cranny. Vintage monster movies, Halloween crafts, a photobooth with some seriously amazing props (a vintage TV? You got it!) and a candy bar fit to thrill your inner fat kid (who said caramel apples are just for kids...). Christina and Edward left no detail forgotten. They seriously thought of everything, including the music and giant moon from my all time favorite movie.... The Nightmare before Christmas. 

Then... the guests arrived. The mad hatter, Gumby, Zombie Elsa & Zombie Anna. A unicorn, a princess.... Jack Skellington. Everyone played along and wore their costumes. Including yours truly and the Sashem Photography Team, who were dressed like cats of course. The moment came after the ceremony and portraits when I thought this wedding couldn't get ANY better. That is the moment Christina chose to reveal her costume by adding beautiful white Angel wings to her gorgeous white wedding gown. 

All in all, this wedding was definitely memorable and will be one to "haunt" our wedding dreams for years to come. Huge thanks to Sashem Photography for allowing me to second shoot with her. I look forward to another Halloween Wedding with her this year!  

My brother and (now) sister-in-law were getting married and trusted me to do a wonderful job on their engagement. I worked with her brother to provide an awesome set of images for the two of them. My business had barely started, and theirs was one of the first engagement sessions I photographed that year. Now, here we are a whole 5 years later. When they announced her pregnancy, I immediately asked them to keep me in mind to photograph their maternity session. When they were ready (YAY!!) we managed to squeeze it into the already busy baby prep schedule and ended up with a wonderfully fun session. 

When I teamed up with Tiffany of Sashem Photography, we knew that the rock-n-roll style needed something seriously different as far as the "cake". At first, the idea seems a bit shocking. WHAT KIND OF A WEDDING DOESN'T HAVE CAKE????? But after a rather insane turn of events that morning (aka: arriving at the bakery to find they'd sold out of cakes already, whoops!) and some seriously creative thinking, we ended up with a pretty awesome dessert bar that could easily be multiplied for larger weddings! 

Here's the fun part.... we styled this dessert bar using items Tiffany found at local thrift stores. The glass cake plate was a piece she already owned, and she picked up several different size records to use for "plates". Wandering Dolce Si while Tiffany was out thrifting, I found these AMAZING swan pastries. Whoever came up with this idea was pretty brilliant. Since there wasn't a "cake" available, I chose two of the swans and a fruit and creme filled Paris Brest (for those of you who are gluten free, I feel for you, but rest assured you could totally eat these. Dolce Si has a whole bunch of delicious gluten free goodies, including the pastries I purchased. WIN!!) along with three of my new favorite cookie: the macaroon. Imagine my surprise when I bit into the third one (because let's face it, I bought it to eat immediately) and found it was filled with delicious apricot jelly. Yum.

Once we arrived on the scene, we placed the Paris Brest and swans together on the largest record setting them on the cake plate. The macaroons joined the party, placed on a smaller record. For larger parties, consider a vintage tin lined with dozens of macaroons, and select several cake stands to line with swans. Adorn your display with lace, beautifully soft velvet and some pretty scattered flowers. Then sit back with confidence, knowing no one will miss the cake.

Even before I'd met him. He was this teeny tiny little thing, trying to climb out of a laundry basket. The thought he could once fit in said laundry basket is a bit shocking now. Just over a year old and weighing about 80 lbs, my boy is a gentle giant. 

When I started searching for houses after my divorce, my goal was a farm. At least 2 acres, a place for chickens, a barn, a garden and maybe a horse, or at least a goat. As the birth of Miss Gracie neared, I knew that wasn't going to be attainable at the time. So I settled for a small plot of land (less than 1/3 acre) in a subdivision outside of Bonney Lake. (For those who know me personally, you know this house is about 200 feet from the house I grew up in). The house isn't big. The lot isn't big. But we definitely have some big plans for it. My goal is to document those things here. A few of the plans we have are: 

The Garden & Green House

There's a spot on the side of our home that is perfect size for a greenhouse and garden. Last year I received some beautiful raised planters from a wonderful client of mine, Chuck's Planter Boxes, who also happens to be the maker of the two planters on my front porch. These will be placed in the greenhouse when it's built.

The Mudroom

One of the downsides of rushing through home buying is that I didn't consider the fact my house plan didn't include a pantry or mudroom. Instead there's a small back hallway that's taken up by the washer and dryer, which isn't big enough for the two very large dogs we have to get in out of the rain. So plans are being made for a mud room off the back of the house, where the washer and dryer will move and space for the pups to come in out of the cold will be made. The current back hall will be converted to a walk through pantry.  

The Kitchen Makeover

Really this is more like a simple "face lift" for my kitchen. Eventually I would love to fully replace the kitchen, but for now I'm focused on a better faucet for my sink, a locking wine cabinet in the island, and replacing the lighting fixtures to help with my food photos. 

A Farmhouse Welcome

In an effort to bring a little more country to our suburban home, the front porch will be replaced with a large covered front deck and stairs the length of the deck leading up to the front door. Some place to put a small porch swing, my small planter boxes and a beautiful welcoming entrance. 

One day, we will probably sell this adorable little place, but right now, we're going to make it the perfect little home. 

Angie contacted me via Facebook at the very end of last year, looking for a wedding photographer. She'd seen an ad I'd placed in a group and loved my work. Upon meeting her, I was instantly drawn to her personality. Very outgoing, upbeat and enthusiastic, she explained all of her wedding plans including the large wedding party of her best friends from all over the US. It's going to be an amazing summer wedding, and I'm thrilled she's chosen me to capture it. 

I met Jeremy for the first time at their engagement session. This very quiet, reserved man took a few moments to open up. But part way through the session, it was obvious he was enjoying himself. His antics brought out some of the biggest smiles and laughs from Angie, and connection between these two really shined through. They balance each other and together they're going to be a force to be reckoned with. I cannot wait to be present, cameras in hand, on their special day. 

Craig and I met through a mutual friend, and in just short of a year have become good friends. I love the way he talks about his wife, and how wonderful she is, so when I finally managed to get these two to agree to a photo shoot, I was ecstatic to meet her. She was every bit as lovely as he'd described. Listening to the two of them tell their engagement story was one of the sweetest, most hilarious moments I'd had in a long time. While I don't remember the details, there was something about a bra and the dog having ate it. Yikes. But the two of them were perfect together. During their session, Amy mentioned she'd been feeling a little off lately, and I was even more thrilled to get the message a few days later that soon, they would be adding another two feet to their family. 

It's really hard to believe that it's been almost 20 days since I returned from my last trip to Nevada. I'm set on finding somewhere new to visit next month within Washington. A trip out to Forks sounds like it's in the mix, but for now.... let's just enjoy this gorgeous Nevada skyline. 

It sure makes you want to take a road trip, doesn't it?

I hit my goals hard in 2016, and as a result lost focus on a lot of other daily things. Finding a balance hasn't been easy. Being sick almost constantly on top of it wasn't helpful either. And that's the thing, aside from a handful of times in the past 8 years, I really hadn't been sick. Well, at least not until December of 2015. 

I spent a lot of time visiting my grandpa in the hospital during November 2015 and then the rehabilitation center that December. It seemed as though I started to constantly get sick. First one cold, then another, and a flu, and another cold. By May 2016, when I hit wedding season full force, I had spent the majority of the months before fighting numerous colds and a couple of migraines. Each trip to the doctor resulted in another round of antibiotics, which we all know is not a fun, or healthy thing. (Let's not discuss the time I went to the doctor for a cold and came down with the flu two days later, less than 48 hours before Tonya & Mark's wedding! YIKES!). Along with that, my eating went downhill, and I was existing solely on tacos, pizza, pringles, boxed foods, milk duds and monster energy drinks. Having been the girl who gave up most dairy and all processed foods in 2011 to make her own bread, pizza dough, cake mixes, brownies and pancake mix, this diet wasn't friendly at all. Within a year and a half, I gained 20lbs, and by the end of January I had a migraine that wouldn't cease without heavy doses of pain killers. 

That's when I realized I needed a change. 

If I was going to be top notch and survive wedding season this year, giving my clients the images and experiences they deserved, I needed to change things around! But these changes can't happen overnight. It's impossible for me to wake up one morning and decide, I'm going to do a complete overhaul, without some pretty nasty side effects. I did, however, formulate a plan for my life changes.

I started going back to the chiropractor and allowing myself some major self care without the guilt of taking time or resources from other parts of my life. I set a goal to work out five days a week, even if it's short workouts (which are awesome! Check out Seven for the iPhone. It's a bunch of 7 minute workouts, with the ability to create your own, set a higher number of circuts, etc). Since there are suspected food allergies, I'm ditching gluten, dairy and (eventually) sugar for at least the month of March. This is the hardest part of the whole plan. I'm a carb lover. I love fast food (Seriously, bring me tacos any day, or pizza. I'll eat a whole pizza if given the chance), but the majority of fast food places don't use gluten-free flours or alternative dairy-free cheeses. Bugger. 

I can do this. And by the time wedding season rolls around this year (We start in MAY! Whoop whoop!) I'm going to be feeling a heck of a lot better than I have in the past 12 months! Let's hit it hard! 

Ok. You're right. That isn't a rooster, it's a silky chicken. But at the time of publishing..... it's the closest I had. 

Don't worry if you don't follow the Chinese Zodiac, this post is still for you.

According to China Highlights Website the Rooster is 10th in the Chinese zodiac and this year is a "Fire Rooster Year". They tell us that the Fire Rooster is "trustworthy, with a strong sense of timekeeping and responsibility at work." This whole idea makes me a little jealous of those Fire Roosters, since my timekeeping skills aren't the best. Since I'm a "Fire Tiger", I'm optimistic that 2017 is going to be a wonderful year for the lot of us. 

2017 Goals

Like pretty much everyone else on God's green earth, 2017 brings some new goals to the mix for this gal. Because I'm determined to remain accountable, I'm going to be giving you a glimpse into my "normal" life (the term normal being used loosely here) and updating with blog posts. Scary stuff is right. 

Goal 1: Consistency

My first goal is pretty generalized for both business and personal. I've set up a posting schedule for my blog, social media and updating the email newsletter list each month. I'll be spending some time over the next couple of weeks, putting together a consistency calendar for my home life, including things like which days of the week we'll eat out, which weekends are scheduled with at home activities and which nights I'm grocery shopping. Then the goal is to follow the plan for a whole year. The steps to accomplish this are:

Create a monthly newsletter template with information relevant to each month
Create a social media schedule for Facebook, Instagram & the blog
Brainstorm ideas for 2 blog posts per month in addition to client features 

Goal 2: Transition

This second goal is strictly business related. I am aiming to grow my business enough to transition from working two jobs (my current full time job, plus running my photography business), to focusing solely on my photography and serving the amazing clients I've gathered and continue to meet on a regular basis. The biggest thing here for me, is getting over the fear of not having a regular salary and relying on my own business and skills to keep my family in a positive financial status. The steps I'll need to do to accomplish this are:

Saving 3 months of liquidatable assets
Have sessions booked 3-6 months in advance
Shoot 20 weddings as the lead shooter this year
Begin booking 2018 weddings

Goal 3: Minimize & Thrive

The last goal has two very distinct parts to it; business and personal. On the personal side of things, I need to minimize the amount of "things" I've collected over the years and continue to collect. The best action steps for this side of it are: 

Declutter kitchen, family room & bedrooms
Donate, sell or trash unused items
Upgrade storage organization systems (cabinets & shelving)
Organize all remaining items into "homes" and remove anything I don't have room for. 

The business side of things is a bit less daunting and complicated. Mainly, I'm streamlining my business to better service my customers. Instead of having dozens of choices for sessions, weddings or products, I've sat down and focused my services. Sessions will include 3 different types of sessions; Moments, Documentary & Adventure. Weddings will have 3 collections to choose from, all based on time. Products will be limited to gift prints (either loose or boxed with USBs), signature books and albums. 

The thriving part is easy. Once the decluttering is done, I can focus on making the most of my business and space to support my family and my amazing clients! I am truly looking forward to seeing where 2017 leads us and taking some epic adventures with everyone!

Ready for an epic adventure? Inquire here.

And down the street in a seemingly "business" building hides
The Hansen Place

These beautifully unique venues are two "sister venues" in downtown Sumner, Washington. Decorated beautifully for the Christmas Season, both of these hidden gems boast gorgeous indoor waterfalls, giant cozy fireplaces and a romantic Hollywood ambiance. With 23 years in business, these indoor venues are architecturally stunning and brides will only ever need to bring in minimum decor for their events. Sparked by the process of planning one of their daughter's weddings, the family realized how much they loved planning events and how much Sumner needed more indoor venue options. 

If you could tell a potential bride anything, what would it be?

"I would tell brides to stop and really enjoy themselves and dwell in all of their hardwork. I always tell brides to surround themselves with amazing vendors that they trust so everything runs seamless the day-of and they can relax." - Barbara

More of The Attic

More of The Hansen Place

Find The Attic and The Hansen Place on:

The Hansen Place Website

The Attic & The Hansen Place Website

The Attic on Facebook

I generally start the day with a pot of coffee, or a Starbucks run for a Venti Skinny Vanilla Latte with Almond Milk. I wasn't always like this, and from time to time I've actually tried to swear off coffee. Sometimes, I can last a whole two days.... but usually it's less than 4 hours (excluding when I'm sleeping. That whole 6 hours I go without coffee. It's an accomplishment, really). Sure, I'll drink diet coke, water and juice, but coffee is seriously the life elixir that keeps me going. 

What does this have to do with photography?

99.999999% of my client meetings start with coffee. I love meeting at a local coffee shop (who's tried Craft 19 in Sumner? No one? Let's meet there!) to discuss your wedding day plans. It's always more comfortable than having a stranger come to your house, or some stuffy little corner of a studio somewhere. Instead we'll meet near you (or your venue!) and chat about everything you're looking for while enjoying the sounds, smell and delicious taste of heaven. 

There are a few things you'll want to bring with to your consultation! Questions for me. Your wedding day plans. And a thirst for a great cup of coffee. 

Ready to get started? 
Enter your session type (Wedding/Couples/Boudoir) & preferred date below!

I met Tonya in junior high choir. I don't remember how or why we became friends, but I do know that if you'd told those two 13/14 year olds that in about 17 years, she would be getting married and I'd be there to witness it; we'd have totally agreed with you. Had you told us I'd be photographing it? It's likely we would have given you a strange look and walked away. I "had no artistic ability" and was convinced I'd be a veterinarian, or maybe a famous singer. 

I can't tell you how THRILLED I was when Tonya asked me to photograph her wedding to the love of her life, Mark. (Face it: It's fate. Mark/Markie? Yep. Fate.) Not a single road is completely clear of bumps, and neither was theirs. Life likes to throw curve balls. Including, me getting sick at 6 am the day before the wedding. 

Rain, snow, sleet, hail, hellfire, or flu.... Nothing was stopping me from getting to Tonya and Mark's Urban Seattle Courthouse Wedding. On Thursday, December 22nd, I packed up my gear, crackers, sprite and (of course) a Starbucks skinny vanilla latte with almond milk and headed to meet my second shooter, Sarah of Sarah Gonia Photography. 

Seattle, in December, is COLD and all that grey cement and steel really gives a beautiful dark vibe. Seeing Tonya and Mark walk up together, and her beautiful wedding dress vibrant against all that grey, nearly made my eyes leak. She was glowing (and shivering). Mark was a real team player as we made them pose and snuggle and kiss right there on the street. Poor guy. Haha! 

Their ceremony was beautiful with the lights of Seattle visible in the background. Short and sweet, they were married before we knew it. And then it was off to the party! 

Tonya and Mark, 
    Thank you for trusting me with these precious memories. I am truly blessed to be able to call you both valued clients and friends. I am looking forward to watching your family grow stronger in their bonds and family connection. May your years together be filled with lots of love, happiness and all that other good stuff. ;) 
Much Love, 
Markie

Clarks Creek Park, Puyallup

The first and farthest location I love is Clarks Creek Park. This place has miles of trails and plenty of room to send your kiddos off with a sitter for a bit while you relish in your love for one another. With plenty of trails to get lost in, Clarks Creek makes a gorgeous backdrop for your engagement photos. 

Wildwood Park, Puyallup

Another favorite of mine, this park is set back off the beaten path. While it's set on the side of a hill, it's beautifully kept and has that fantastic Washington Moss growing everywhere! 

Riverwalk Trail, Sumner

Funny thing... I used to live right here, and never thought to use this great location for photos until recently. A short jaunt down the paved trail and you'll find a beautiful foresty background, plus the river and a few open fields. It's a great place to head for those who want woodsy locations without heading all the way into the National Park. 

Tehaleh, Bonney Lake

The best spot is actually right in our own backyard. Tehaleh is a beautiful housing community that's built for the outdoor types. They've kept some gorgeous trails through the community and of course... check out that view of Mt. Rainier? What more could a girl ask for?

Tammy with Delineations Photography asked me to come second shoot with her for this beautiful Chambers Bay wedding. The couple had a love story straight out of a fairy tale and their wedding matched that theme. Justine's father said she'd never even dated to his knowledge, but flew to Brazil for the world cup and came home in love with a Brazilian Dance Instructor, Luiz. Justine and Luiz recited their vows in front of at least 100 of their closest friends and family, spanning two continents. Luiz's friends and family came in from Brazil, while Justine's family gathered from the Western Washington Area. Justine and Luiz headed off after their beautiful day to continue their life together in Brazil.

Sometimes a simple "Thank you" doesn't feel like enough thanks for the people who've beautifully captured your once in a lifetime memories. Here are my 20 favorite gifts under $25 to thank or celebrate your wedding photographer! 

1) I shoot people Pentax Novelty Mug

2) Knock Knock Selfies to hold all their Bride/Groom/Photographer selfies in

3) Check out this Kurt Adler Christmas Tree Ornament. It comes in both digital and classic camera models. 

4) If your photog likes to wear their heart on their sleeve (or rather their car) check out this Vintage Camera Car Decal from Amazon. 

5) Gift her the perfect hair accessory with this Pink Hair Bow made with actual film by KimreysOddBeauty on Etsy.

6) How about this Vintage Antique Camera Scarf? I love this infinity scarf from AmyAnneApparel on Etsy. 

7) This Graflex Lens Pendant would make a classy addition to any photographers wardrobe. Find it on Etsy from FieldofDreamsJewelry. 

8) A Distressed Wood Vintage Camera would be perfect for their desk! Customize the color through InterestingInteriors on Etsy! 

9) Let the male photographer in your life show off his muscles with this Keep Calm and Carry Canon tank from SilkRoadTees! 

10) A beautiful Wooden Camera Tape Dispenser would make any desk a happier place to be! 

11) With this Camera Keychain, your photographer will never go anywhere without a memory of you! 

12) Gift a tshirt that celebrates your photographers favorite things: Coffee & Cameras

13) Deck out their table with these Film Salt & Pepper Shakers. 

14) No suit is complete without a pair of Camera Shaped Cufflinks! They even come gift boxed. 

15) Photo-opoly. Because everyone loves Monopoly, but this is ten billion times better. 

16) Does your photographer love cookies?? These camera cookie cutters will keep gifting again and again! 

Wedding day preparations can run long. Who knew you'd need to start at 8:00 am in order to finish hair and makeup by 4:00 pm?! Keep those attendants happy with three great ideas that won't require an emergency run to the 7-11 for a snickers on your wedding day!

1) Drink tub: Sometimes staying hydrated and remembering to eat is hard for everyone on your wedding day. All the hustling around, getting everything divinely perfect for you can take it's toll on both the Bride and your attendants or vendors! Have a tub filled with different beverages can make staying hydrated (and keeping energy up) really easy! A few favorite things to include are: Coconut Water, Sparkling Water, Odwalla smoothies, Orange Juice and Sprite. 

2) Adorable matching robes: Avoid ugly half dressed photos during prep time and get all your bridesmaids beautiful matching robes! Check etsy for dozens and dozens of options or take a look at these beautiful flannel ones for your winter weddings! 

3) Instant Camera: Have a blast pre-party with an instant camera. All your attendants can leave with mementos from your big day without the wait for those pro pictures. Amazon has some awesome options, and their two day prime shipping will get it to you in no time! Don't forget to order extra film! 

With so many awesome spots in Tacoma for weddings, this city needed it's very own wish list. Tacoma boasts everything from beautiful pagodas on the waterfront to the exquisite theaters located on our very own Broadway and modern Tacoma Convention Center. This is a short list of the many wonderful places I'd love to check off my bucket list! 

Titlow Lodge: http://www.metroparkstacoma.org/titlowrentals/

Tacoma Convention Center: http://www.tacomaconventioncenter.com/social-events-weddings/category/3-social-events-weddings

Historic 1625 Tacoma Place: http://www.historic1625tacomaplace.com/

Events on 6th: http://www.eventson6th.com/

Fabulous 50s Hall: http://www.partytacoma.com/Fab50s.html

The Ruston Chapel: http://www.therustonchapel.com/

STAR Center: http://www.metroparkstacoma.org/star/

Point Defiance Pagoda: http://www.metroparkstacoma.org/pagoda/

Point Defiance Rose Garden: http://www.metroparkstacoma.org/point-defiance-rose-garden/

Point Defiance Zoo & Aquarium: http://www.pdza.org/weddings

Tacoma Nature Center: http://www.metroparkstacoma.org/rentals-nature-center/

Urban Grace Church: http://urbangracetacoma.org/facilities/#_WEDDINGS

There are so many areas considered the south sound, that I had to limit myself to those places local to Bonney Lake! Tacoma has it's own wish list coming, but if you want to get a small ways out of the city, these are some of the options I'm lusting over! 

Sumner

The Attic & Hansen Place: http://www.attichansen.com/

Laurel Creek Manor: http://www.laurelcreekmanor.com/

The Windsome Grace: http://www.winsomegrace.com/

Bonney Lake

Seven Summits Lodge: http://www.themantelrestaurant.com/the-mantel/

Kelley Farm: http://www.thekelleyfarm.com/

Orting

Orting Manor: http://ortingmanor.com/

Puyallup

Meeker Mansion: http://www.meekermansion.org/events-wedding-teas-specialized-puyallup/weddings/

Washington State Fairgrounds: http://www.thefair.com/weddings

Rock Creek Gardens: http://rockcreekgardensvenue.com/

Celebration Center: http://www.ccpuyallup.com/

Buckley

Filigree Farms: http://www.filigreefarm.com/

Tracey Castle: http://www.thetracycastle.com/

Enumclaw

Mountain View Manor http://www.mtnviewmanor.com/home.html

Genesis Farm & Garden http://www.genesisfarmandgardens.com/

Enumclaw Expo Center Field House http://www.enumclawexpocenter.com/fieldhouse

Auburn

Neuwaukum Grange http://neuwaukumgrange.com/

Wine & Roses Estate http://www.wineandrosescountryestate.com/

Black Diamond

Black Diamond Gardens http://www.blackdiamondgardens.com/

Sounds insanely miserable right? But it's the perfect season for warm apple cider, cozy layers and loads of snuggling with your hunny. It's also a wonderful time for an engagement session and here are three ideas to spark your engagement creativity.

1) Visit a pumpkin patch. Pumpkin patches are a huge part of the fall season and lucky for you, they boast more than just pumpkins! Most of them have corn mazes, other fun and awkward squash types, plus a bunch of food! Head down to Pumpkin Palace and grab a hot dog before heading over to chat with the turkeys. Spooner Farms tends to be super busy on the weekends, but it's a great time to go visit the dinosaurs in the corn maze and get a little lost in the meantime. Finally, for the brave of heart, there's Maris Farms. I haven't personally visited in the daylight, but after dark... it's one creepy experience. Grab your photographer (don't worry, she's brave) and head out to find the Great Pumpkin while celebrating your love. 

2) Play in the trees at Point Defiance Park. Point Defiance Park is one of my go-to places, both professionally and personally. I can't tell you how many sessions I've shot here (It's been at least 4 this year alone) and how often I take my kids (or even just myself!) out here to relax. Over by the Pagoda is a beautiful garden area that's currently covered in reds, yellows & oranges. Head over to a bench to snuggle with your hunny for a minute during your engagement session. 

3) Checkout the Carbon River Rain Forest Nature Trail. A quick and easy half mile round trip hike, makes the perfect mini adventure for your engagement session! Grab a beautiful dress and play princess for a bit. 

Do you have a special idea for your own fall engagement session? Let's hear it! 

{BOUDOIR INTERNATIONAL}

When Miss S booked a session with me, she knew she wanted to embrace the beauty that she is. This is a typical reason for clients booking boudoir with me. The ability to come in, have a good time and be comfortable in front of the camera without the awkward feeling of being half clothed with a complete stranger. The beauty and grace of each client always astounds me. 

Are you ready to book your own boudoir session? Click here to get started!

Sure, the hotel may have a buffet, but here are my two favorite breakfast hotspots for the morning after your wedding! (They're even FABULOUS to cure those blasted hangovers.) I highly suggest you check out, Beth's Cafe or Glo's Cafe, even if you don't get out of bed until 2:00 pm. 

Beth's has been featured on the Travel Channel, Food Network and the Learning Channel, in addition to being voted "Best Place to Cure a Hangover". I have to agree. Beth's has become a favorite of mine when I'm in the Seattle area for pretty much any meal. Who doesn't love breakfast for dinner? I've even developed a standard order.... the Triple Bypass. Their 6 or 12 egg omlet choices are perfect for sharing (a tiny extra charge for the split is totally worth it), and still having leftovers. 

Glo's is a tiny place, open 12:00 am to 4:00 pm and you'll want to arrive early to get a seat, but the coffee is complimentary while you wait. When I visited this cozy restaurant, I was seated at a shared table with a couple. The whole atmosphere feels very much like sitting in a dining room with your family. I'm guessing it's something about the small space. While their menu boasts some interesting options, including smoked salmon in both a scramble and a Benedict, they also have milder options for those of us who aren't as adventurous. 

Feeling like you've eaten too much but don't want to head back to your hotel? Greenlake is right around the corner from Beth's or head down to Pike Place Market to walk off those calories and enjoy your first outing as newlyweds. 

In August, I was given a rare chance to fly down and second shoot for Award Winning Photographer Mark Tioxon of LeahAndMark.com in San Luis Obispo, CA. The adventure started with an early morning plane flight into LAX, and a mini-road trip to SLO. Our road trip was scheduled to take 3 hours, but thanks to the lovely LA Traffic (gotta love that SoCal slow freeway) it ended up taking 5 to 6 hours. We learned my air guitar sucks during that trip. 

Arrival at Flying Caballos Ranch literally took my breath away. The gorgeous ranch home is set back behind a warehouse area. You'd never know it was there unless you had the address. The historic house was built in 1905 and sits quietly in the rolling hills of Edna Wine Country. Seriously... If you have the chance to photograph here, or even just visit for a bit, do it. The place is magical when it's not even decorated. 

Caroline + Paul were warm and welcoming. These two were incredible hosts and their laid back vibe melded with the beautiful California countryside. The entire event was a fairytale come to life. 

Someday I'll make it back to Flying Caballos Ranch. But in the meantime, I'll set my sights on magical venues in the Pacific Northwest. Check out my post on Rattlesnake Ledge for another adventure story. 

Find yourself a mentor. (No. Seriously. Go find one. It doesn't even have to be me.) Learning one on one is much easier than taking an online workshop or watching ten bajillion Creative Live sessions. Don't get me wrong here; I love online workshops (See the list of ones I've done here!) and Creative Live (in fact, I listen to Creative Live almost daily while I work). Both of these things helped me immensely in my photography. 

But the one thing that really gave me a jump on my business, even if it was after doing everything wrong for almost 6 years, was finding a mentor. Mark Tioxon {LeahAndMark.com} got a crazy idea this year to offer an online internship. Having "stalked" him for almost a year, I could tell he was super skilled and definitely knew what he was doing. I applied, with some insanely massive application story that I really can't even remember now. Of course, I waited anxiously to find out if he was going to accept my application and allow me to learn from him. 

Lucky me, he did.

I can't say exactly how much of a boost it was being able to learn from him, see what I was doing wrong (and what I was doing right), and get that extra bit of attention on my work. He taught me more than I had learned on my own in the past 6+ years of business. Sure, I'm still learning and have to re-read 90% of my notes on a weekly basis, but it's really helped me focus and find my way with my photography. It's a completely different learning experience than watching an online workshop. 

So go, find yourself a mentor and pick their brains. Gleam all their knowledge, whether you do everything exactly like they do or not. Shoot with them. Study them. Then go out and make a name for yourself. 

This chicken was very loved by her family. Loved enough they made her take photos with them at least. She enjoyed having her photo taken and her posing was definitely for the birds. 

Ok. Ok. Enough terrible chicken puns. 

I love getting to work with other small business owners. So when one of the owners of two Dickies BBQ locations stopped me at Sumner United Methodist Church to ask about having a family session with me, I was ecstatic! Megan's family was full of personality and the boys definitely kept me on my toes. I had to pull out ALL my lame jokes on these guys. ;) 

The family chose to do their session on their farm out in Orting. It's a gorgeous location with a 100 year old red barn, that boasts years of initials carved into the wood! Annabelle came up with a wonderful setup including hay bales and pumpkins to celebrate the fall season. Of course, the animals had to join in the fun as well! Between the horse who posed so beautifully behind the tractor (I think she was jealous I wasn't over taking her picture), to the silkie chicken who so kindly tolerated us, I was right at home with this family. 

The family was charismatic and we all had a lot of fun! Even if when I said "Be Serious, Don't Smile" they all took me seriously. Lol! They still ended up laughing in the end. I really enjoyed working with them and look forward to visiting and photographing their farm and family in the future! 

One of my favorite October traditions is taking my girls to Scholz Farm in the Sumner-Orting Valley. The girls love being able to play, walk through the corn maze and see the animals up close. Picking out pumpkins to cook and carve almost falls to the way side when we're there. But each year, we head down during the week to grab some fun family time and a few pumpkins. The farm stand has some of the most delicious goodies as well if you're looking to pick up pickles, relish or a divine homemade BBQ sauce. 

First an engagement session for Summer & Michael, and NOW?! A senior session for a gorgeous gal that I've known her whole life. Her aunt is one of my best friends from high school and her grandma used to lead our Girl Scout Troop with my mom. 

Briana has grown up to become a beautiful girl. She enjoys participating in Track & Field (much more athletic than I am for sure), and drama club. She'll head off to college after her senior year to major in the medical field. I'm excited to see where she goes with her future. Best of luck Briana! 

I used to have little black cards. 

These were my copyright cards. Each USB or image order a client placed, got a copyright card. I was insanely anal about making sure EVERYONE knew about the copyrights. Of course, these goofy little cards had a CRUD-TON of words on them... in teeny tiny print. Seriously. I was in my 20s, not using a designer and just wanted everything to fit on the stupid little card. I'm also not sure where I got the bright idea that the stupid little card was the way to go for copyright info. But that's a whole different story. 

By dictionary definition a copyright is: "the exclusive right to make copies, license, and otherwise exploit a literary, musical, or artistic work, whether printed, audio, video, etc.... Works granted such right by law on or after January 1, 1078 are protected for the lifetime of the author or creator and for a period of 70 years after their death." (Definition from dictionary.com)

Yikes. That's a lot of verbiage, especially when it comes to something as important as your wedding photos or family memories. The idea that your photos may be exploited is a really scary thought! But here's the thing, most photographers won't exploit you or your precious memories. They choose to retain the copyright so that your images aren't sold to third parties or otherwise used for some random person on the internet to use your images for advertising weird stuff. Plus NO ONE wants to drive by a billboard with their family photo on it, having never heard about the sale of that photo in the first place! 

So, the big question: Do you need the copyrights to your photos?

The truth is no, you really don't. What you need is a solid agreement with your photographer that they won't sell your images without you knowing about it. You'll also need a reproduction/print release, that states you are allowed to make copies, distribute and post your images. In my contract, my clients are provided with an irrevocable reproduction release, giving you the rights to print, reproduce and distribute your images as many times as you want. Want to send copies to Great Aunt Mable? Go for it. Want to post every single one of your 800 wedding images on Facebook? Sure thing! Use your purchased digital images to create mugs, photobooks, placemats, whatever your pretty little heart desires. 

P.S. I love seeing what clients do with their images. ;) Post photos of your gallery walls, instagram pictures of your new photobook, tag me in a photo of your coffee mugs. I can't wait to see what you do! 

Some days, a girl just needs an adventure.

I've had my eye on this hike for at least six months. I'd originally wanted to bring one of my couples up here, but so far no one has taken the bait. So finally, after wanting a hike and a random begging post on Facebook, one of my gal pals agreed to go with me if we went to Rattlesnake Ledge. Having had it on my list, I willingly agreed and we set a date and time for the hike. 

6:00 am

I'm not typically an early riser, but I couldn't sleep the night before. Knowing I needed to be up and out of the house by 4:45 am to meet Jayne at 5:30 am, I tossed and turned for most of the night. But at 4:30 when my alarm went off, I jumped out of bed, tossed my gear (gently, my camera was in the bag) in my Subaru Outback and headed to our meeting place in Renton. A quick stop for a bite at McD's on my way and I was ready to go. 

When we arrived at the park, it was still pitch black. Aside from camping trips as a kid, I'd never really been outside in the dark. It just wasn't something I made a habit of, because ya know, lions and tigers and bears, oh my! (Ok, really just the bears and maybe a cougar or two. No, I'm not talking WSU cougars either). Armed with bear spray (yeah.....) and a flashlight, we grabbed our backpacks and headed up the trail. 

The trail sucked. Major sucked.

When we'd chosen this hike, it said it was 1.9 miles and the trail was steep. Well.... it was more than steep. It was STEEEEEEEEPPPPP. Imagine walking up about 20 flights of stairs without stopping. Yeah, that's what it was like. 1.9 miles felt like 500 miles. We stopped a few times for water breaks. Our hike was more like a meander. It was slow and right about the time we were ready to give up, I saw the sign at the top, warning about the steep cliffs. We'd reached our destination. 

This is one of those places that leave you in awe

There are really no words to describe the majesty of this place. You're literally standing on a rock that hangs out over a thousand foot fall (the hike gain according to WTA is 1160ft). The trees below look like children's toys or something out of a Christmas Miniature Scene. The views from the top were simply incredible. It's one of those places where you end up standing in silence, taking it all in. Once we'd hit the top, I knew I needed to find a couple to adventure up there for a session. Because seriously, just look at these views: 

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Every summer, we'd pack up for a weekend or sometimes a week long camping trip. If it wasn't a family trip, it was girl scouts, boy scouts or adventure scouts. Some or all of my family was always gone during the summer. Being a single mom and a photographer, I don't always get to go on adventures with my kids. Juggling schedules can be a bit hectic. But over the weekend, my family decided we'd squeeze in one camping trip this summer. So Friday afternoon, I set out with three dogs, two kids and my Subaru to meet up with my parents in Chehalis. 

The Thousand Trails Campground in Chehalis has always been a family favorite. I could fill this page with stories from my youth (My Lawd I feel old saying that) but I won't. Instead, I'll tell you this: We stayed in the RV for the most part, but took the dogs out for a few runs in the fields. It rained most of the time so we watched movies, snuggled and headed to the park between rain showers. It was probably the wettest camping trip I've been on since high school, but it was worth every cold soggy minute. 

And there are probably 150 million photographers who've covered this topic already. They'll talk about how your digital image might get lost on your computer, or that flash drive will die or some other emotional reason you might not want your images in only digital format. Each and every point is very valid. However, as a single mom who lives (and hopefully doesn't die) by a budget, there's a whole different factor to consider.

How much is that digital image really costing you?

Let's look at this two ways: Once with all inclusive pricing and once with full service pricing. For purposes of this article, All inclusive photographers are those that will photograph you then give you a USB/CD/Gallery download link. You get to print your photos wherever you'd like and however many times you like, as well as upload to social media, websites or email them to friends. Full service photographers typically sit down with you to help you pick out prints, canvas and other products, and may or may not include digital images in their packages. 

The all inclusive standpoint

A base rate for all inclusive photographers in the South Puget Sound area, runs about $350* per hour. Many tend to give 20-30 fully edited images with their packages. Without including any tip for the photographer, you're paying about $14 per image based on 25 images. Not a bad price when you just want to post them on Facebook, run a slideshow on your computer's screen saver function or share them digitally (check your contracts though. Some photo releases prevent "sharing" digital files with friends and families). 

Consumer labs, such as Costco, Walmart and Target, offer a variety of products that you can have your images printed on for a small price. One of my favorite online consumer labs is Shutterfly. You can actually get free 4x6 prints from time to time, and just pay shipping charges, adding a measly $8.97** to your digital purchase, bringing the total bill to $358.97! A steal if you ask me. But lets say you need several different sized prints. Your list might look a bit like this: 1 - wall print for your home, 2 - 8x10s for grandparents, 4 - 5x7 for great grandparents, and 32 wallets for your Christmas cards. 

Using current (9/27/16) Shutterfly pricing: 

1 - 11x14 small wall print - $7.99
2 - 8x10 gift prints - $7.98
4 - 5x7 gift prints - $3.96
8 - Set of 4 wallets (32 total) - $14.32

Grand Total w/shipping**: $47.28

That's for your one image. One digital image has now cost about $61.28, and that's not yet including additional prints you might want to put up, other products or books. Not to mention, you're stuck doing the 20-30 minutes it takes putting together your order, making sure everything is cropped perfectly, etc. ;) 

You could lower the per image price by purchasing mugs with multiple images on them (Shutterfly has some cool ones starting at $16.99), Collage frames (Shutterfly prices start at $59.99) or Collage Posters (Shutterfly prices start at $2.79). Honestly, the all inclusive price is great for the budget, but you do run a few risks too, including poor quality printing and possible fading over time. Those things do make a difference, depending on how long you want your photos on display and what you do with them after you've taken them down. 

The full service standpoint

Full service prices can be SCARY. Believe me, I totally get it. As a single mother who works her tail off at two jobs, I am right there with you cowering in the corner when someone says "Print prices start at $12 for a 4x6 image". Yikes, right? Especially when you've already paid $99 for a session fee and didn't get anything other than a good time to show for it. Let's say your $99 session fee results in 15 images, that's $6.60 per image. Now, if you're anything like me, you'll have some crazy gallery wall started and you'll want to add to that. Maybe you want four 5x7s, two 8x10s and one 11x14. 

By the time you're done, those add up to $150 (not including tax!). Wow. But here's the fun part: Even if you don't purchase any of the other images, your per image price is $35.57-ish. And those prints don't even need frames for display. They come mounted on matboard and can easily be displayed on a shelf or hung on the wall with command hangers. 

If simple prints aren't your style and you're wanting more bang for your buck, you can get a full gallery USB + 8x8 Photobook for $800. The photobook alone is worth $225. By the time you're done, those digital images are $26.96 each. And you have a gorgeous book to keep for yourself or gift to the grandparents at Christmas. 

The best part? Those memories aren't just stuffed away on your computers hard drive, or on a USB in a drawer somewhere. They are up there, on your walls where you get to see them daily and be reminded of the wonderful time you had with those you love dearly. 

*these numbers are based on my own research of photographers with business overhead. It does not include Aunt Sally or Uncle Bob and their brand new camera
**Shipping based on Bonney Lake, WA

It feels a bit shocking actually. I swear just a few moments ago we were welcoming the gorgeous Seattle Summer. Now suddenly it's a beautiful Washington Fall Season, with Seattle Rain, snuggly hoodies and Starbucks Pumpkin Spice Lattes. Before we stuff all our summer goodies away though, here are a few of my September Favorites. 

Jordin + Tom welcomed me into their home for some quick portraits. This fun couple shares a lot of the geeky qualities I love in my clients, from a creative music skill to the die hard Princess Bride fan. I'm quite in love with these two as you can tell. 

I can't wait to see what amazingness October brings! 

I know a lot of you might be scrambling right now, wondering and worrying if your photographer is going to screw you over like this one did to her brides. I can assure you, we're not all like that. We don't all offer you amazing prices and then completely ignore you, only to blow you off at the last minute. AND we don't all blame you like this article here. (P.S. I DON'T agree with that photographer at all. It makes me sad she would do that.) 

So here's what I want you to know. There are photographers out there that will work with your budget. Sometimes it can be daunting when a photographer lists starting prices that are THOUSANDS of dollars over your budget. There are a few things I would recommend you do: 

1) ALWAYS ask to meet with your photographer before booking. The only time I'd ever say "go ahead and book" someone you've never met in person, is when that photographer has been personally vetted by someone you truly trust and HAVE met in person (think a brother/sister/parent or your absolute-never-gonna-let-you-down best friend).

2) Even if your photographer has been personally vetted by the Pope himself, scour their website and social media like a crazy-stalker-ex-lover. You want to know everything before you hire them. Including if they eat tacos daily for lunch. 

3) Ask to see a full wedding. If they can't/won't show you one (even if it's the ONLY one they have) there are usually two reasons for this: Maybe they've never shot a wedding and that's perfectly ok! If you're comfortable with them and trust their judgement, feel free to hire them anyway. This is great for someone with a very small budget. The other, more scary reason, is they may not be completely truthful. I would be wary of any wedding photographer who can't/won't show you a full wedding. You can view almost all of my full weddings here, including my first wedding with super old branding on it. 

4) If you fall in love with a photographer who is a bit out of your price range, ask about a payment plan or financing. It's a lot easier to pay large amounts in smaller chunks. Payment plans allow you to do that paying cash, while financing usually requires you to use your credit. A lot of photographers offer this even if they don't actually advertise. 

5) Consider your timeline. You might not need a full day package, but if you're concerned about needing extra time, ask potential photographers what their policies are on overtime. You might be surprised with the options out there. 

6) Last but not least, please realize there is a whole network of wedding photographers out there. We TALK. We SUPPORT each other. Which means, if your photographer has an emergency, they should have backups. Ask them who they work with on the regular and who they call when they have an emergency. We never wish that something happens to prevent us from making it to your wedding day. But we do PLAN for the worst case scenario. 

Please, if you ever find yourself in a situation where you're needing a last minute photographer, reach out. Maybe I can help get you covered. <3 

I can't believe all the fun sessions I got to photograph last month! Three boudie sessions, an AMAZEBALLS wedding with Mark from LeahandMark.com (of course, I'm still holding those images until he says I can show you! Sigh. Such is the life of a second!), two awesome couples sessions, an engagement I'd been dying while waiting for (just kidding!) AND a last minute family session, complete with a sweet pup! Boy was that an awesome month! Here are my favorites from those sessions! 

I can't wait to see what this month brings! Here's to September! 

I love getting to talk shop while they prep for a session with me. When Sarah offered up herself and her hubby for a couples session, I was stoked to get some time to chat with her.

These two are adorable. We used the beloved technique for their session as well and it got some adorable images a second time! I’m really enjoying getting to play with this new model. Sarah & Kyle, I look forward to getting to know the two of you more! 

Back in July, I started searching for the perfect floral designer to put together a bouquet and boutonniere combo for one of my past brides who wished to have a "re-do" on her wedding photos. I found Cindy Garske of Flower Fayes on a Facebook group and fell in love with her work. I explained my vision to her and she made it a more beautiful reality than I could have imagined. 

Flower Fayes, which has been in business for 31 years, was not only amazing to work with, but also sweet enough to answer some questions for me to feature them on the blog! 

What sparked your passion?

"My mom had a love for flowers and introduced me to gardening. When I was of age to work, I started in a small flower shop as a cashier. I had a huge interest in floral design. Eventually I was taking every opportunity there was to create and learn the business. I earned a masters in floral design and competed in shows. Floral design is an expression of every human emotion there is through flowers."

Is there something special you do/provide that sets you apart from other vendors?

"I pride myself on customer service and satisfaction. I meet on location if needed. I like to meet up with brides a couple times before the wedding, just to confirm they're satisfied with their choice of flowers."

What is your favorite product offering and your favorite product to create?

"I love offering seasonal flowers and the brides bouquet is my favorite product! I love seeing her face light up when I deliver it to her! <3"

Cindy of Flower Fayes, would love to live in Maui if she had the choice to live anywhere. If she could tell you, the potential bride anything? "Trust me, it will be beautiful!" And let me tell you, she's telling the absolute truth! When you're in the market for the perfect bridal bouquet, email Cindy Garske at [email protected] and let her design that perfect piece for you! 

Watching these two in love was absolutely thrilling. Even without knowing their story, you can tell they've been through a lot together. Getting married on their 2nd anniversary was the perfect start to their new lives as husband and wife. Jayme & Allen, I wish you all the best! Congratulations on your marriage. Cherish and adore one another for the rest of your lives, just like you already do today. Much love, Markie. 

All images shot for Captured by Katie Photography. 

But after photographing Miss T last summer, I got asked to do multiple other women's boudoir photos. So I gave in and started photographing boudoir. When Click Shutter Amazing decided to host an in studio boudoir shootout, I knew I wanted in. I tossed my name in and a short time later I was on my way to Portland, OR. 

Before this, my sessions were typically in home or outdoors, both options I still love for clients. But shooting in a natural light studio brought a whole new aspect to it. Then when we got the idea to move out to the rooftop.... I completely fell in love with everything boudoir. Now I can't get enough and can't wait to get some more sessions in. 

Something about the holidays always gets to me. Maybe it's the snow, the decorations or just the general aura of the season, but it's always a season of pure enchantment. Here are six ways to make your winter wedding sparkle: 

1) Glittery tree branches. This bundle was found at Kristy's Country Store in downtown Sumner, which is an amazing little shop to find goodies in. Be sure to check out vintage shops in your area for beautiful glittery branches like these. You could also make your own using a tutorial like this one by Momtastic (<-- click for link). 

2) Vintage Ornaments can add a beautiful magical vibe to your wedding. Toss them in bowls with some tinsel, hang them from tiny tree centerpieces, or gift them to your guests as a special keepsake.  3) Twinkle lights. Any color of twinkle lights. Wrap them around a dollar store wreath form that you've painted with sliver paint, or between false trees to create an archway. 

3) Pinecones and berries. Frost your own berry branches using a tutorial like this one from Lynn's Sweet Paradise (<--Click for link). Stick come sliver or glittery pinecones in bowls, scattered on tables, or use them to hold up your guest's place cards at their table settings. 

4) More Glitter. No joke. 

5) Candles. If you can't burn real candles or don't want to risk a fire, choose battery operated tealights. Candle holders are pretty easy to find, and you can have a customized decal made from any number of etsy sellers. Send home the candle holders as a keepsake for your guests. 

6) Last but not least, snowflakes. There's nothing more beautiful than these completely unique ice crystals. I've found some beautiful pieces at the shops in downtown Sumner. Be sure to check your local vintage shops and craft fairs to find the best unique pieces. 

It was her senior year of high school, and I had yet to start my business. Her dad insisted on paying me, which I turned down saying I didn't have the proper experience. He paid me anyway, in the form of an Applebee's gift card, which I used to take my small family on a dinner date (Thank you Brad). He believed in me and my work even back then. 

Since that very first session, Summer has returned to me at least once a year for photos. She's helped me out when I needed to test new equipment, drags Michael along with her when I needed a man to add to my portfolio and brings her best friend, Ashley, out for photos of the two of them that don't include random street side selfies. She'd mentioned in passing during a random outing, that she would love for me to photograph her wedding in the future, whenever that ended up coming to pass. Of course, I was more than happy to oblige her. 

So when I saw her announce she and Michael had gotten engaged, I was thrilled for them! I also knew it meant I needed to really do something different this time. So late the other night, I selected images, clipped and spliced video and came up with a love story slideshow. 

What I really can't wait for though, is their wedding. These two are such a blast to photograph, laughing and talking and making the most of our short time together. She's going to be stunning in whatever she chooses to wear and I'm thrilled to be joining them as their photographer as they take vows and join together as husband and wife. 

After learning my hard drive with all my engagement sessions on it went missing (it's around here SOMEWHERE, but having moved almost yearly for 5 years, I have no idea where in my storage unit it is), I put a call out in one of my favorite Facebook groups asking for willing models. Leslie messaged me, saying if I was ok with old people, they'd be more than willing to model. (Silly 25 year old woman!) Having met Leslie before and connected with her as a friend, I was super excited to take her up on the "old people" photographs. ;) 

I knew these two were perfect to try out the prompts I'd purchased from the Beloved Collective. Leslie mentioned she was "awkward" in front of the camera (aren't all photographers?) and Shannon was very clear that he only came because he felt bad I'd lost my photos. But by the time we were done, those two were all smiles and you'd never know they weren't naturals in front of the camera. 

Seeing these two together and watching them laugh, joke, and shed a tear or two (TOTALLY my fault. I take all the blame there.) really warmed my heart. They successfully blended their families and built a love like none other. 

Shannon + Leslie, 
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for coming out and joining me last week. Your love gives me hope for my own. Stay snuggly you two, and make out a lot. ;) 
xoxo,
Markie

Isn't really how every love story starts. I still remember hearing about Chris's efforts to get my cousin Ashley to go out with him just once. She was pretty reluctant to give him that first date. But once she did, it would be impossible to separate those two. They were married in January 2013, with their little one Kingsten expected shortly after that. I photographed their wedding that year, approximately 30 people crammed into my uncle's living room in Tacoma. 

The styled session didn't go as planned. We had this on our schedule since Mid-April, and had been discussing doing new "wedding" pictures for the two of them a while before that. Yesterday we learned our original location wasn't available today, so we improvised and went to one of the families favorite places, Point Defiance Park.